Lifestyle & Business

I Believe in Myself, Even if You Don’t.

*Forgiveness is important. Thank you for forgiving my mistakes. English is not my native language. But I’m improving*


Photo by Riccardo Annandale on Unsplash

“Faith includes noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some light returns” ~ Anne Lamott


“You can’t do this. That’s impossible. Who do you think you are? That’s not for you.” This is what people used to tell me when I was likeable. It’s so frustrating when your peers don’t believe in you and see your dreams as too big or unrealistic. You spend time with “friends”who never encourage you but ask you to forget about your heart wishes (I suggest taking some distance from this kind of individual by the way). But they don’t get it. Sometimes, there is a burning desire inside us which motivates us to take actions. I could spend hours just thinking of a project, and coming out with new ideas. The biggest mistake I did was to share it with the wrong people. Here we go: “Haha Ella! I am sure you are pulling my legs”, “You know you won’t succeed right?”, “Ella, be realistic, that’s impossible”.

Personally, the word “impossible” isn’t part of my dictionary. Do you know what an airplane is? It is a very, very massive engine, which can fly, next to the clouds, carrying hundreds of people from one part of the globe to another. Thousands of years ago, do you think humans could have imagined something like that? Not so sure. But since we now experience it on a daily basis, it becomes soo normal. Great! The fact that you don’t understand something doesn’t mean that it won’t work. The fact that you think you understand something and believe it won’t work doesn’t mean it won’t. The fact that everyone thinks you are wrong doesn’t NECESSARILY mean you are. You can examine the thoughts of others and still decide to follow your vision. I am the master of my life. YOU ARE the master of your life. The world is full of success stories who were first considered as failures by society.

Since I’ve become an anti-conformist, I am no longer likeable (or let’s say I’m less likeable than before). I don’t give people enough space to pollute my vibes. I encourage pioneers, visionaries, explorers, seekers, dreamers, etc. We create our own reality and sincerely, I think the time is now.


Believe in yourself – Motivational Video


How to Believe in Yourself in the Face of Overwhelming Self-Doubt

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